Finding financial alignment can move you beyond the numbers to the heart of security.

Conversations about money are rarely just about money. They're about trust, control, security, freedom, and deeply ingrained beliefs formed by our individual histories. In my practice, I view financial conflict not as a lack of financial skills, but as a breakdown in the shared language of safety.

My approach to couples therapy delves into these underlying emotional currents, helping you unpack the unspoken fears, unacknowledged needs, and attachment patterns that money conflicts often trigger. I help you decode the attachment fears beneath the balance sheet, transforming money from a source of friction into a tool for connection and security.

When relevant, we also specifically address the impact of mixed-neurotype dynamics on financial harmony, including executive functioning challenges and fundamental differences in how money is conceptualized. We build a financial roadmap that honors your unique neurobiology rather than pathologizing it.

Areas of transformation may include

 

internalized beliefs and fears around money

value systems around money and financial structures

Exploring the nature of Neurodivergent thinking or mixed-neurotype dynamics on financial harmony or distress

cycles of resentment around financial roles and mental load

defensiveness and shame in money conversations

Identifying shared goals and desires for financial wellbeing

Feeling criticized, judged, or looked down upon for past or current money-related behaviors

Building trust or improving teamwork around shared money management

Exploring family of origin or childhood experiences related to money